Not Approved

YAAAAAAAAAAAAY I finally got my first email story. Granted he's a friend and I know him but never the less......

This is a friend from high school. A real great guy in my opinion. We will just call him Not Approved

I'm just confused (about) my situation. Ok I have a girlfriend and shes a good person and (she's) done nothing wrong but the problem lies in the situation. She resides with her parents and her father isn't too fond of me. I'm pretty much a blunt person,not perfect. Shit I'm human and I just feel that he doesn't think I'm good enough for her or the type of person he wants her to date. Initially it didn't bother me but now its starting to bother me. I have to sneak over at times during late late night and cram all the time in I can. I'm a very passionate man, and I cant fully show that because of time restrictions. There are days where I may want to treat her to dinner,movie,just chill with her and the obvious days where I want to please her physical in any way possible. I cant do that like I want I mean I see her on a good week once or twice. I talked to her pops and he, to sum it up, said he don't approve of me,I didn't spend Valentines day with her... What should I do? Am I wrong for preparing myself 2 move on?

Signed Not Approved

Well Not I honestly can't say this is a situation I have dealt with before. But I will say this, the situation with her parents is not permanent. She wont be staying with her dad forever and if she means as much to you like I think she does then she should be worth the wait. But if its that bad for you, then you are going to have to let her go and hope that you see her again in this lifetime or another. Its no sense in you being unhappy if she doesn't mean as much to you.

If you feel as if you have done all that you can to appease her father and none of its worked, I hate to say this but take it back to high school. Sneak around. Have her tell Dad she's staying the night at a friends house and scoop her up. Stuff like that. Plus sneaking isn't all that bad. There's a little excitement in it, I think.

What do you think Not Approved should do with his situation? Have you been in a situation like this? How did you handle it?

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